FREE Online Dating Advice
Monday, October 10th, 2011FREE Online Dating Advice
Free Dating sites can open up the system to scams, hackers or those not looking for a genuine relationship. Online dating is notorious for the married man/player, and frequently females who have tried online dating, end up taking a more exclusive route eventually.
Free online dating sites are there for anyone to join, it’s for the masses, regardless if they’re in a relationship already, or married, or just men seeking females for brief encounters, recreational intimacy, casual sex.
With FREE you have absolutely no guarantees whatsoever, that the person you contact or contacts you, lives where they say they live, or IS who they say they are, free emotionally, or otherwise, to embark on a relationship, or date you. I know as I researched both on and off-line dating for nearly two years before opening the doors of my own introduction agency.
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This is NOT to say that everyone who joins an online dating agency is dishonest or married, certainly not, well, not for the under 35′s, which may be fair to say, if under 35 and you want to hook up with several dates and are NOT too specific in what you’re looking for, it can probably work quite in your favor. It’s for those 35 upwards that come across the a vast majority of potential dates who are not free to date or just looking for casual sex, as it is so easy to self-create a profile, saying whatever you feel will attract people. The amount of females who have told me they thought the guy was genuinely looking for a relationship, only when they met, within a short space of time, a few hours for some, he would text something very overtly sexual, ask for images, ask what her breast size was, and these are MEN over 35.
You have to realize that whatever we choose in life if it is FREE it will open you up to all kinds of situations, not just online dating, but anything that is free. If people will try to cut corners, they will put themselves at risk from all kinds of situations they would prefer not to experience.
I’ve even come across escorts, trying to use online sites during my research, and frankly the BIG online dating sites really are not overly concerned by this, as long as people join and eventually pass over some money to contact people by e-mail, that is as far as their responsibility goes.
FREE Online Dating means very little in the way of security checks on members, no sorry, I mean NONE. Because it’s free the dating companies are not going to pay a team of staff to vet every member. FREE means the chances of you meeting that barrister, airline pilot or exceptional single professional is as small as Posh Becks dress size. FREE is the chancers option who seeks the ultimate partner for very little input..and life just doesn’t work like that!
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